Marriage
Once someone told me "marriage is not a word its a sentence" and the semantic meaning is "Legal union of man and woman for the purpose of living together".
But i always believed that "marriage is not merely a word or sentence but rather can b considered as a whole book"
It is considered as a inherent essential in our society, but now a days people are found to be running away from the social bond; they are considering it as a burden for their professional and personal life. not being in a marriage gives them more time for their professional growth, and more time for partying with friends and to have fun, and it also gives a sense of freedom and liberty.
But in longer run it leads you to sombre solitude. you may find good and successful career, lots of money, party, fun ans even friend to enjoy with but it will never provide you the stability in life.
Marriage gives you a sense of responsibility, a reason to head towards home at the end of the day. a sense of happiness that someone is there to love and care for you even better than you yourself can, marriage is all about enjoying others success, living your partner's dream, crying someone's tears, smiling someone's happiness. its not about U and ME its about US.
In India marriages are said to be made in heaven. we believe that it is destiny that is why leaving the whole world we find the one who is made for us, and get married to that stranger, then while living with them we understand each other well an change ourselves accordingly.
In our society when we get married to a person we do not merely marry a person, instead we marry the whole family. we not only become someone's spouse but we get into some more relations too (for a girl- Bahu, Bhabhi, Chachi, Mami; and for Boys- Damad, Jija, Phufa, Mausa) and you neer to leave each relation carefully. its not merely two people coming into a bond with each other but two families too. and they also care and respect this special relation.
Thus because of so much you get and so long you live this relation, i believe to call it book rather than calling it merely a sentence,
after writtingthis much i still feel like a lot is left to say about this Divine relation
But i always believed that "marriage is not merely a word or sentence but rather can b considered as a whole book"
It is considered as a inherent essential in our society, but now a days people are found to be running away from the social bond; they are considering it as a burden for their professional and personal life. not being in a marriage gives them more time for their professional growth, and more time for partying with friends and to have fun, and it also gives a sense of freedom and liberty.
But in longer run it leads you to sombre solitude. you may find good and successful career, lots of money, party, fun ans even friend to enjoy with but it will never provide you the stability in life.
Marriage gives you a sense of responsibility, a reason to head towards home at the end of the day. a sense of happiness that someone is there to love and care for you even better than you yourself can, marriage is all about enjoying others success, living your partner's dream, crying someone's tears, smiling someone's happiness. its not about U and ME its about US.
In India marriages are said to be made in heaven. we believe that it is destiny that is why leaving the whole world we find the one who is made for us, and get married to that stranger, then while living with them we understand each other well an change ourselves accordingly.
In our society when we get married to a person we do not merely marry a person, instead we marry the whole family. we not only become someone's spouse but we get into some more relations too (for a girl- Bahu, Bhabhi, Chachi, Mami; and for Boys- Damad, Jija, Phufa, Mausa) and you neer to leave each relation carefully. its not merely two people coming into a bond with each other but two families too. and they also care and respect this special relation.
Thus because of so much you get and so long you live this relation, i believe to call it book rather than calling it merely a sentence,
after writtingthis much i still feel like a lot is left to say about this Divine relation
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